For the planner
The maid of honor’s timeline.
What to book, and when, so nothing sells out on you. Built around what actually books up first in Nashville.
6+ months out
- DatesPoll the core group on two or three weekends. Check the big-event weekends before you send it.
- BudgetAgree on a per-person range up front. Most land around $450–$850 before travel.
- HeadcountGet firm yes/no answers; the house is sized to this number.
4–6 months out
- The houseBook it and collect deposits. What to check before you pay.
- The big rideBook the party bus, wagon or boat next. Pontoon Saloon advises booking private cruises about 90 days out; popular weekends go sooner.
2–3 months out
- BrunchReserve a table for the full group; some places hold it with a card. Group brunches.
- Classes & glamLine dancing, blowouts and a photographer. Lessons · Glam and photos.
- ThemesPick outfit themes so people can order online. What to wear.
1 month out
- Final paymentsCollect the balance from everyone. How to do it without the awkwardness.
- The planShare one schedule with times, addresses and dress codes. The Weekend Builder makes the first draft.
- BluebirdWatch for Bluebird Cafe tickets on its own site; they can sell out in minutes.
The week of
- ConfirmReconfirm every booking, meeting point and check-in time.
- WeatherCheck the forecast and swap in a rain plan if needed; the Nashville Tractor has a roof.
- CashBring small bills to tip bands, hosts and drag queens.